The cleavage...

There are woman who are extremely comfortable with showing off their cleavage and then there are those who are not...  

It is quite funny when you are out with friends and one of your friends, a girl wears some trendy or for a more apt word sexy outfit... The cleavage is showing but she is not the one who is comfortable. well it ruins all the trendiness. the endless drama of each minute she pulling back the dress or holding it tight, each time she speaks people look as you are supposed to listen and more discomfort and more pulling of the dress... and the listeners don't know where to look... painful as you feel guilty of looking even when you are not or you worry that she does not think that you were looking :) .. painful... I have seen this drama with short skirts as well.. 

So to all woman the advice is wear what you comfortable in, you will look more attractive not because of the dress but the way you carry yourself... 

Beautiful !! But am i living it?

I wish i had wings and i could have a peaceful glide in the sky, it is such a beautiful sight the birds with a very calm, smooth glide in the air... beautiful !!

let me share some other sights, experiences which i find beautiful....

the receipe of home made choclate cake dipped in custard.. it tastes beautiful... though choices with respect to food are many but this one which my mom makes is amazing

the sweet experience of achievement, creating a solution and implementing sucessfuly a fairly difficult problem... it feels beautiful... more beauty flows if it is recognized by others.

the touch of a woman with a feeling of calmness, and filled with love... divine and beautiful..

sincere gratitude shown by a person who you helped, the beautiful gesture of gratitude makes you melt from inside...though very likely it may bloat your ego and make you arrogant

seeing someone getting success, bouncing up from a low, seeing that smile on his/ her face on having achieved and you have lend a helping hand... it leaves you with a beautiful feeliing of having contributed.. having made a difference... just beautiful

the beautiful sound of some music when listened to in a peaceful environment, when you just completely get absorbed in it.. a rare moment in our days of rat race...

the beauty of the mountains, rivers and the smell of fresh air.. it is so beautiful....

There is so much beauty and i wonder if i know all what i find beautiful... and am even more surprised how less time i/ we give to the explore and garner experiences which are beautiful to us ....

life is to be lived differently than how we live... may be will talk about it in next blog...