Wisdom Tweet # 6 .. No Regrets

Few weeks back I read an article in times of India on the most common regrets people tend to have;  Yesterday I browsed an article on Internet on the top 10 regrets dying people have, it was collected through the  nurses...

These articles hint at what you must do so that you don't have to regret in life, it tries to give you a direction through generalizations of what people in general miss and therefore you should not. 

But I was wondering is regretting past serve any good? It makes you feel small, sad for missing out, robbing us of being happy in the present, happiness being the goal and it being the mental state of being, should we not just not regret and focus on the present and do what makes us happy...

Does regret do any good?

Wisdom Tweet # 5

The small talks are a process to buy membership, to begin the connection... it is the window shopping before real shopping... They could be unintelligent talks but required.. We  are slow to trust and ready to accept vulnerability or be vulnerable...

Wisdom Tweet #4

Why do I get a feeling I am chasing the wrong dreams?

Wisdom Tweet #2

“The first steps to the journey are the most difficult ones!”


So true, I just find difficult to break or even digress from my current journey and take new baby steps. The comfort of current, fear, the giving up of all effort, starting afresh is all so difficult.

Wisdom Tweet #1

The challenge is to accept oneself. We struggle and find the others better and feel inadequate, incomplete. We want more than what we are and feel miserable. Accept what you have and from there take steps towards what you want, that is your journey. Learn to enjoy the journey as destination is far and many more destinations await you. By the time you reach the destination you may have lost valuable time in tension and strife. Just enjoy the journey and love yourself, accept yourself. This is the greatest gift of happy life we could learn


The secret lies in being able to forgive yourself of exacting standard by which you measure yourself and keeping the naughty doubting mind under control.