The cleavage...

There are woman who are extremely comfortable with showing off their cleavage and then there are those who are not...  

It is quite funny when you are out with friends and one of your friends, a girl wears some trendy or for a more apt word sexy outfit... The cleavage is showing but she is not the one who is comfortable. well it ruins all the trendiness. the endless drama of each minute she pulling back the dress or holding it tight, each time she speaks people look as you are supposed to listen and more discomfort and more pulling of the dress... and the listeners don't know where to look... painful as you feel guilty of looking even when you are not or you worry that she does not think that you were looking :) .. painful... I have seen this drama with short skirts as well.. 

So to all woman the advice is wear what you comfortable in, you will look more attractive not because of the dress but the way you carry yourself...