Life Myth 2

Life is fair....



I just hope with all these statements someone does not think of me as a pessimisst, hopeless. I am not infact i am a hard core optimist and positive person. I like to see reality as is and not through romantic notions one have about life. I believe strongly if you know the reality only then can you learn, learning in life is very improtant for me. Knowing the real opens so many doors that it will suprise you, it gives more strength than what one can imagine..



Coming to the topic life is fair is a big myth. If it was fair - terrorists could not kill innocents, mental barbaric assholes would not rape woman, people would not sleep hungry, you would never be cheated, at work your real strength will be known to everyone, politics and created perceptions would not let promote the incompetent, i could go on with an endless list



If life is not fair one may think it is so hopless to be a part of it. Life is fair if you look at it in a different dimension. in dimension of time. If you do not look at the past or not create imaginary romantic notions of future which may or may not happen. Most often they (imaginary romantic notions) will not as we let our minds create a perfect imaginary world which in reality cannot happen in its entierty causing disappointment.



Look at the dimension from present. There might have been unhappiness in the past, if you forgive, let go, the present gives you opportunity to feel its beauty. Senses last for just an hour in a day the rest of the present is in feeling good and is a state of emotional being. We need to experience that.



Life is fair as it is lived in moving time, the past gets erased even before you know it... each second races it is fair if it is lived in present in the actions what you are doing.. It cannot be fairer than this if you look at it each second gets erased in the next second and if it was unhappy one perhaps you should be grateful it is gone and feel good.. life will be good.



The unfairness in comparison will always remain and accept it stop comparing and you will see all in all even if it is not fair it can be beautiful